Biography and Accomplishments of Winston Wu

Biography and Accomplishments of Winston Wu

Hello, my name is Winston. I am a Journalist, Writer, Actor, Traveler, and Marketing specialist. I consider myself to be a Renaissance man, freespirit, Existentialist, free-thinker, nonconformist, philosopher, writer, actor, seeker, adventurer, spiritualist, an old soul, and lover. As a result, I connect with and prefer the company of open-minded, nonjudgmental, free-spirited people who are intellectual and spiritually-attuned to some degree. And I dislike and get along least well with judgmental and closed/narrow minded people who have rigid beliefs about how things and people “ought” to be, for those are my pet peeves.

Though I am Asian American, I am unlike the typical type which is career-minded, conformist, duty-driven, closed-minded, judgmental, materialistic, money-loving, petty, mathematical rigid thinking, and unable to think “outside the box”. (In fact, a Scotsman I met named Peter who has been to over 100 countries in his life, described me as “probably the most atypical Asian male” he had ever met.) (You can also view my anti-Asian repression treatise here)

Though I am Asian American, I do not feel an affinity or connection to Asian culture or mentality. Instead, I’ve always felt more drawn and at home with European culture and societies, as well as the American Old West pioneer/cowboy culture.

I am an Existentialist type of person who delights in reflection, introspection, asking big questions about the meaning of life, and trying to put it all together. Therefore, I don’t have the typical American/Asian view that life is all about making money and being committed to a career. Instead, I share the European/Australian attitude that life is about having new experiences and adventures, exploring the world and meeting lots of new people. And I judge my life and self-worth by the richness of my experiences, rather than by career status. That’s who I am, not a conformist to what the establishment tells me.

In my experience, I tend to get along best and naturally with travelers, freespirits, New Age people, mystics, actors, writers, and Europeans/foreigners. I have a natural comfort zone and synergy with those types and find them to be more wholesome and complete. My vibe, consciousness, and soul energy seem to vibrate at a much more similar frequency with theirs, leading to a stronger sense of a more kindred spirit. On the other hand, I don't seem to connect or jive with the types of people who frequent nightclubs or bars a lot, nor with the mainstream all-American valley/hipster types. Their vibe and consciousness seem to vibrate at a different frequency than mine, and their communication style seems plastic to me, and doesn't fit my communication style. So it feels awkward and unnatural trying to relate or interact with them, like we have very little to talk about, making them seem unapproachable to me. I don't know why, but this pattern seems consistent.

I enjoy writing, acting, theatre, meeting people, traveling, European culture/travel, photography, tennis, billiards, ping pong, swimming, martial arts, hiking, coin-collecting, chess, scrabble, history, History Channel, Travel Channel, PBS, British comedy, museums, science-fiction, cooking, cultural events, 80's pop music, watching Twilight Zone reruns, vegetarian food, metaphysics, exploring mysticism, New Age spirituality, philosophy, paranormal phenomena, and just living life to the fullest. I enjoy all styles of music except country, rap, and heavy metal. I am a vegetarian and my favorite foods are Chinese, Italian, and Vegetarian cuisine.

I think that most of the stuff on TV today is trash, and I never watch network programming. The only channels I watch are History Channel, Travel Channel, PBS, AMC, and sometimes BBC (British programming).

My sun sign is Pisces with Scorpio rising and Gemini moon (for those who don’t know, the rising influences your outer personality and the moon sign influences your inner self and emotions). And my Meyer-Briggs temperament type is ENFJ. My favorite movie is The Empire Strikes Back. And my favorite books are The Holographic Universe by Michael Talbot, Under the Tree by Greg Stone, and The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.

I’ve lived in four US states – New York, California, Washington, and Nevada. And I’ve resided at length in two foreign countries, Taiwan and Russia. Overall, I’ve been to a total of 10 countries which broadened my mind and cultural world view – USA (of course), Canada, Taiwan, Japan, Russia, Ukraine, Latvia, Estonia, Lithuania, and Poland. And I’ve met thousands of people from these countries. I consider myself quadrilingual, speaking English, Chinese, Taiwanese, and Russian (yes, during my journeys there I acquired a functioning knowledge of it).

I have made accomplishments (described below) in writing, acting, parapsychology, traveling, and spiritual development. The following chronicles the main events and highlights of my life from birth until present day.

Turbulent and conflicting beginnings

(Note: You can read a more comprehensive version of the next two sections about my childhood at www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Childhood.htm)

Born in Taipei, Taiwan, I emigrated to America when I was three years old. After a year of living in Queens, New York, my family moved to California. There, we lived several places around the Bay Area, first in Palo Alto, next San Jose, and then settled in Fremont for many years before relocating to Alameda during my final year in California. Afterward, circumstances drew me to live in Washington, then Nevada, and back to Washington again. As you will read below, I’ve also lived abroad in Taiwan and Russia.

An only child, I grew up in the California Bay Area suburbs in the 80’s. During Kindergarten and First Grade in Palo Alto, I was very happy and popular. But upon moving to Fremont, I was suddenly perceived and treated as a misfit both racially and personality-wise because I was different and unconventional. There was something different about my “vibe” and “soul energy” so to speak. For years, my shy, sensitive, and timid nature prevented me from asserting myself against the ego-sucking crowd, making me a weak easy target for bullies. Deprived of pleasure and social status, my childhood and teenage years were filled with alienation, frustration and persecution, causing deep psychological trauma. The striking difference between the low treatment by my peers and my high self-image caused a deep fundamental conflict that exists to this very day.

Due to my passion for life, desire to connect with others, love and be loved, I was unable to accept this condition and strived against all odds. To cope from being alienated by the “mainstream norm” of the adolescent crowd, I resorted to intellectual pursuits and cultivated a rich inner life. Having a natural feel for deep thinking and analyzing at an early age, I was a chess champion who rarely lost a game. And with a knack for spelling and grammar, I won my class spelling bee in 6^th grade.

Religious fervor and mental breakdown

Eventually, my search for meaning led to becoming a devout born-again Christian fundamentalist, where I found solace, a sense of hope and purpose. It gave me the power and reason to make sense out of my troubled and conflicting childhood, as well as my unjust persecution by my peers (i.e. “glory in the persecution of the saved by the world”). Impassioned with fervor, I became involved with Church youth groups and even planned to go into the Evangelical ministry. After a few years, despite my fervor and dedication, my life suddenly went through a series mishaps and misfortunes, which led me to collapse into depression and insanity. This in turn served as a catalyst, unleashing some sort of weird obsessive/compulsive anxiety control routine in me, which the establishment dubbed as a “mental disorder” at the time. Whatever it was, it put me in an “inner hell” beyond my control and incapacitated me, growing worse daily with no solution or support in sight. I was given medication by mental health professionals, but they did nothing but give me bad side effects. Though seemingly doomed by pain and incapacitation for the rest of my life, my will to live endured and kept me alive. My stubbornness and willpower refused to succumb to my dire circumstances which seemed to warrant suicide.

After being taken out of the persecution of high school where I was unable to function or study anymore (and where my ego and psychic shield were constantly being attacked by energy leeches), I spent a few weeks in a nice rehabilitation center and went on home schooling. When the year was over, I spent a year in Taiwan, taking refuge there; teaching English and having fun. There, free from social and psychological persecution for once in my life, my mental, emotional, and spiritual growth suddenly seemed to accelerate and evolve. And fortunately as well, the weird mental control routine disorder, which imprisoned me before, and which I thought condemned me for life, went away on its own; drastically reduced to a small hindrance on a very controllable level.

Rebirth: A new Winston emerges out of the ashes

When I returned to the states, I was like a new man; reborn, filled with an insatiable desire and talent for expressing myself. Suddenly, asserting myself came naturally. I possessed an ability to write and communicate articulately that I never had before, which seemed to come from nowhere. It was like I was suddenly filled with this “energy” inside me that needed to express itself. In addition, I possessed an inner confidence, strength and optimism that few my age had. And I was also blessed with an ability to appreciate the beauty and richness of the little wonders of life, which few have (something that those who lose their minds and return to sanity again seem to cultivate).

(You can read the turbulent but inspiring story I wrote about my deconversion from Christian fundamentalism in an article I wrote years later entitled My Rise to Christianity and Transcendence From It at these links: http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/My_Rise_to_Christianity_and_Transcendence_From_It.htm (the latest version) or http://www.angelfire.com/me2/mccl/index.html (the original but outdated version) For similar stories that postulate a metaphysical cause of mental disorders, also see http://www.successfulschizophrenia.com/stories.html).

A major paradigm shift into metaphysical views

All this led to a major paradigm shift which expanded my view of reality. The victory over insanity, persecution, and doom gave me the strength and inspiration to conquer my problems and put me on a path of discovery which gave me the interests I have today. My spiritual quest moved away from orthodox religion into a search for a “unified theory” which explained and accounted for all religious and supernatural phenomena. This led me into New Age and metaphysical realms.

During my post-deconversion research, I also discovered that the Christian fundamentalist infallible doctrines I preached before were not what they claimed to be. You can read a book length article detailing the research and discoveries I made - a comprehensive point-by-point debunking treatise I wrote recently, entitled Debunking Every Argument of Christian Fundamentalists and Evangelists which covers 15 arguments made by Christian Evangelists and Apologists such as Josh McDowell and C.S. Lewis, filled with scholarly citations and quotations, at this link: http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Debunking_Christian_Arguments.htm. (FYI, a whole plethora of scholarly articles debunking every aspect and claim of Christian fundamentalism and the Bible can be found at www.secularweb.org and www.geocities.com/paulntobin/central.html)

Post-graduation life and first relationships

After finishing my last year of high school, I went to a community college and met my first girlfriend, a cute petite Vietnamese Accounting student named Phuong. (You can see her photo by clicking here. She is in the top left photo.) But after two years together, we split due to irreconcilable differences and incompatibility, but remained friends. (i.e. I was open-minded, expressive, imaginative, free-thinking and free-spirited, while she was judgmental, materialistic, and closed-minded.) Gradually, I realized and discovered that my soul and destiny were not fit for a conventional business career or the corporate culture, but wasn’t sure what the alternatives were. I found that I was too much of a “free spirit” and a fish out of water in their materialistic and conformist mentality. My best talents and self seemed to lie in more creative pursuits. Therefore, I began to pursue acting in addition to a business degree, got involved in theatrical and film productions at school, and worked in a few professional film productions (movies, TV series, commercials, and corporate videos) through casting/talent agencies as well. My acting resume can be viewed at www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Resume_Acting.htm and my business resume at www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Resume_Business.htm.

A few years later, I graduated from California State University Hayward with a business degree in Marketing and Computer Information Systems. Then I moved to Washington state to be with my next and long-time girlfriend, Robin, whom I met on the internet. (Her photo here, top right) We lived a nice life together of balance and stability for two and a half years, and even got engaged to be married. However, unfortunately the relationship forced me to live in an area of the state with little career opportunity, so I was forced to take a string of meaningless dead-end jobs to pay the bills. Eventually, we grew apart and discovered that we wanted different things in life. The passion, chemistry, and energy between us was also gone, and we both yearned to be free. The split threw me into another state of psychological trauma for the second time in my life, since I had always been a hopeless romantic, and a believer in old-fashioned love, sticking through thick and thin.

My writing accomplishments lead to recognition and fame in Parapsychology community

To cope, I immersed myself with my passions and spiritual pursuits to an even greater degree. During this time, I produced my greatest and most acclaimed work (by the parapsychological community) by writing the treatise Debunking Pseudo-Skeptical Arguments of Paranormal Debunkers (http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Debunking_Skeptical_Arguments.htm (updated version) and the original version at http://www.victorzammit.com/skeptics/winston.html), an extensive point-by-point scholarly debunking of the arguments of pseudo-skeptics (e.g. www.csicop.org, www.randi.org, www.skepdic.com, www.skeptic.com) which was the first of its kind.

This work gave me notoriety among the metaphysical community and was endorsed by top parapsychology researchers and authors such as Dr. Gary Schwartz (www.openmindsciences.com), director of the Human Energy Systems Laboratory of the University of Arizona (http://veritas.arizona.edu/), who conducted famous scientific research with mediums, and authored books such as The Living Energy Universe and The Afterlife Experiments. And others, including Loyd Auerbach (Editor of Fate magazine (www.fate.com) and author of Mind Over Matter), Dr. Victor Zammit (Australian lawyer, author, and afterlife researcher, www.victorzammit.com), and Whitley Streiber of Unknown Country (www.unknowncountry.com). I was even commended by the famous and controversial Israeli born psychic spoon bender showman Uri Geller (www.urigeller.com), whose internationally publicized psychic feats inspired the spoon-bending scene in the blockbuster movie The Matrix. Geller even called me a few times to congratulate me with some nice pep talk.

Many paranormal enthusiasts considered it to be the “Gospel” against pseudo-skepticism.

You can read many public reviews, endorsements, commentaries, references, and citations about this noteworthy work of mine at these links below:

http://www.unknowncountry.com/news/?id=537

http://perdurabo10.tripod.com/id138.html

http://www.ep-ic.com/EP-IC/Mysteries/Archives/Mysteries141.htm

http://www.rense.com/general51/ebramce.htm

http://www.victorzammit.com/skeptics/

http://www.transmaterial.com/

http://www.greatdreams.com/crop/hoax/hoax.htm

http://www.psicounsel.com/page9328-a.htm

http://www.psicounsel.com/wwudebunk1.html

http://www.nderf.org/NDE%20Rhetoric.htm

http://www.theosophy.com/theos-talk/200112/tt00274.html

http://blavatskyarchives.com/zeteticism.htm

http://www.tvtalkshows.com/board/showthread.php?t=24561

http://exchristian.com/forums/index.php?s=982272bf6a628e4d592d380bfda0dbcb&showtopic=2431&st=60

http://www.stardrive.org/Sarmail7-13-00.shtml

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/debunkingdebunkers/message/5587

http://www.freeinquiry.com/skeptic/resources/

http://zeal.com/category/preview.jhtml?cid=10023718

http://calbearssearch.com/p/browse/us1/us317914/us1157486/us56582/us10023718/

http://www.psi-infos.de/news2_02_-_geistiges_heilen_u_.html (in German)

http://www.skeptizismus.de/rhetorik.html (in German)

http://geocities.yahoo.com.br/existem_espiritos/refutando_os_ceticos.html (in Spanish)

http://www.tarotuk.co.uk/uk-tarot/pages/Verona-UFO-psychic.html

http://www.destiny-tarot.co.uk/91/Verona-UFO-psychic.html

http://www.destiny-tarot.co.uk/82/revealing-Tricks-on-doing-psychic-readings.html

http://www.horoscope-uk.co.uk/horoscope/61/Verona-UFO-psychic.html

http://www.sjgames.com/ill/2001/jun.html

http://www.vangarsse.com/jozefrulofforum/index.php?action=vthread&forum=1&topic=768&page=77

http://friendscommunities.org/archive/index.php/t-2501.html

http://www.bloginservice.com/talk/end_of_days/messages/167.shtml

http://www.bigfootforums.com/index.php?showtopic=5096&st=440

http://ipoh.com.my/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=7;t=000028

http://www.unexplained-mysteries.com/forum/lofiversion/index.php/t18612-0.html

http://www.unexplained-mysteries.com/forum/lofiversion/index.php/t19533-50.html

http://www.siql.com/arts/radio/radio_programs/radio_talk_show.8.htm

http://www.tapsforums.com/index.php?topic=36870.msg922511#msg922511

Also, if you wish, you can read the official rebuttal to my work from my opponents, the Organized Skeptic groups, at: www.skepticreport.com/tools/winstonwu.htm and a long internet forum discussion by skeptics about it at: http://www.skepticfriends.org/forum/topic.asp?ARCHIVE=true&TOPIC_ID=1209&whichpage=2

This work also led to my appearance on several radio shows such as The Forbidden Truth by Michael Goodspeed, The Clyde Lewis Show (KOTK 1080 AM) (www.clydelewis.com) in Portland, Oregon, and Ghostly Talk Radio (you can listen to that interview online in the archive section of their website at www.ghostlytalk.com). Later, due to widespread recognition, I was invited to an international conference as a guest speaker at the Mysteries of the World (www.mysterypark.ch) theme park in Switzerland, and a similar conference later in New York.

Though well read in paranormal studies, I did not limit my knowledge solely to books, but also participated in interactive activities such as organized ghost hunts which gave me fascinating first-hand experiences of such phenomenon.

As a critical thinker who hates brainwashing techniques as a result of having been brainwashed a few times myself, I also wrote against scams and shady business practices such as extended warranties and multi-level marketing. See http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/The_Truth_Exposed_About_Sears_MAs.htm or (Consumer Affairs edited version at http://www.consumeraffairs.com/retail/sears_maint_con.html), and http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/12_Reasons_Why_Sears_MAs_are_a_Scam.htm. Also http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/The_Truth_About_MLM.htm

And recently, I’ve completed an article about dealing with and avoiding elaborate and highly skilled scams in Russia on their own soil. www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Russian_Scams.htm

I have also written articles published in various hard copy publications, such as Texas Atheist, Compass (www.taiwanfun.com), Estates News (www.estatesnews.net), Moscow News (www.mosnews.net), and a few others including many web publications. Estates News in Moscow was my first professional level Journalist position.

Rejuvenation and expression in Nevada

To finally conquer the trauma of my breakup with my long-time ex, I went to live in Virginia City, Nevada (where Mark Twain underwent some sort of transformation and changed his name from Samuel Clemens) at the invitation of my friend John Benneth (www.marius.org), a staunch advocate of homeopathy and one of the nemeses of the most famous paranormal debunker, James Randi (www.randi.org) who is offering a controversial million dollar psychic challenge to anyone who can demonstrate supernatural abilities under controlled conditions (details on his site). There, I stayed with Benneth for a while and then got my own place. (It’s been said that the best way to clean out unhealthy baggage from the emotional trauma of a breakup is by moving and putting yourself in a completely new environment to start a new life; well it’s true.)

It was in Virginia City that I played my favorite acting role was as a magic sidekick assistant in an ongoing daily show called The Mark Twain Ghost Show performed in the Piper's Opera House. There, Benneth and I put on a two man professional show which comically demonstrated Mark Twain's belief in telepathy and psychic phenomenon, termed "mental telegraphy", through some mentalist illusion tricks which stunned and dumbfounded the audience. (You can a photo of that show and some other productions I did here) I also did some work in commercials and corporate videos through a model talent agency in Reno (www.modeltalentuniverse.com) and even eventually got a good paying sales/marketing agent position with them. I found that I was great at selling, generating leads, and signing up talent, due to my outgoing attitude and ease in approaching people.

It was also there that I met one of my best friends, Michael Goodspeed (www.trueskeptic.com), one of the radio hosts who interviewed me about the debunking skeptics article, and who also wrote a plethora of free-thinking articles published on www.rense.com. (His photo here) He also came to pursue some acting as well as a change of environment from the dull vibe of Oregon. Together we also did some ghost hunts in reputedly haunted areas with a PBS crew from Portland, along with some specialists from there as well. Then I met and had a passionate love affair with my next girlfriend, Danielle, a gorgeous lady I met at a Wiccan group. She was the most interesting, sensual, and attractive girlfriend I ever had. (Her photo here, center left)

After about 7 months though, the shows I was involved in went into low season, my job at the model/talent agency was phased out, and my love affair with Danielle suddenly ended after some bizarre circumstances. While visiting my parents back home in Washington, I suddenly got a job offer from a government agency that I had applied for a year ago. Taking this as a sign to move back to Washington, I took the job and brought all my stuff back from Nevada.

My epic long odysseys to Russia and Europe

Returning to Washington, I worked at the government agency job for about 5 months, before being laid off by budget cuts (which turned out to be a blessing in disguise). Though it was a very bureaucratic and conformist environment that put me in a rut, it was a well-paying position which helped me save up a lot of money. Now, my original plan upon returning to Washington was to save up money to move to Hollywood to pursue my acting dreams, or perhaps go back to the Southwest to Arizona, Las Vegas, New Mexico, or Utah (since I prefer the environment, scenery, and open space of that area over the lush forests of the Pacific Northwest; the social and spiritual energy of the SW is so much brighter and better).

However, instead I found myself making plans to take a trip to the exotic lands of Russia and Ukraine instead to search for a wife, and seek love and adventure. The reasons for this are complex and long-winded, and you can read them in great detail in the introduction section of the book of my first trip to Russia at http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Winstons_Trip_to_Russia_and_Ukraine_Summer_2002.doc, but in a nutshell, I was dissatisfied with my love/social life in the states, and needed far more stimulation from it than I had been getting. Since I didn’t see it getting any better, I felt that a drastic move or change was needed, since “extreme situations require extreme measures”. I had also heard of the large surplus of the single available women in those countries who were desperate to leave their country, and the superior qualities over American women they had. All this information came to me from the internet and the plethora of booming marriage agencies online. This, I thought, was my chance to live like a movie star and date stunningly gorgeous women out of my league. It was a temptation too great to pass up, especially since I saw a huge deficiency of “love conquests” in my life which left me with a strong feeling of resentment and helplessness. Was going to Russia/Ukraine the answer? I wasn’t sure, but it was worth a try at least.

At first, I was hesitant and fearful to do such an unconventional thing, but my willpower and sense of adventure gave me the courage to follow through on these plans and prepare a trip. And hence, that’s how my famous and infamous trips to Russia began. Over the next few years, I made a series of three trips to Russia, spending a total of about a year and a half in Russia and parts of Eastern and Central Europe.

Overall, finding a wife or a serious partner was not as easy as I thought, nor was it as simple as the marriage agencies portrayed in their advertising. However, I had the best time of my life. I had many adventures and experiences which I otherwise would never have had. Some of them were comical, while others were downright dangerous (and thank goodness for my Guardian Angels and Spirit Protectors). Many of my experiences and stories were comparable (or even better) than the drama in movies. In particular, the experiences I had with con-artists, criminals and scammers, and their elaborate plots, were like grand black comedies. And I was able to easily form social connections whenever I wanted, since I discovered that the world outside the USA was nowhere near as cliquish as in America, for in other countries, one can merely walk into the non-cliquish social scene out of nowhere, meet people, and have fun.

Abroad, I was able to get the things I wanted and lacked in my adolescent teenage years that I never had - being popular, having fame, attention, an active dating life, partying, and being able to attract and get beautiful women easily whenever I wanted. And I experienced more deeply and dramatically the triumphs, glories, and heartbreaks of love. Thus, pretty much all my teenage dreams finally came true, as a result of these extreme and unorthodox ventures. I was even engaged to be married twice during my trips (one of my fiancées even looked like the girl of my dreams, but she turned out to be nothing but a conniving gold digger and user; you can see her photo by clicking here, she is in the center right photo; and my second fiancée is also viewable here, bottom left; though she was nice, we just weren’t compatible). And on top of all that, I got the high stimulation in daily life I craved and was deprived of in the states. So much in fact, that it became emotionally draining, and led me to realize that I ought to be pursuing more spiritual and wholesome ventures, instead of a neverending circle of hedonism.

One claim of the internet marriage agencies that is true though, which I can easily attest to, is that the quality of women in Russia and Eastern Europe is much higher than in the states. In general, they are thinner, healthier, more attractive, dress better, and have more developed intellects, personalities and interests. (See my summary about this at www.geocities.com/wwu777us/6_Major_Advantages.htm).

Each time I left and came back home though, I’d feel flat and experience withdrawal symptoms, as my experiences, status, and the “vibe” there became an addiction for me. So I’d work some temp jobs to save up money for my next trip and return back again. During the time between my second and third trips, I met a local girl at a New Age church in my town who quickly became one of my best friends ever, Amber. (Her photo here) We had an instant connection, as though we had known each other for years. In addition to the interest in New Age spirituality, we also shared a love of traveling. In fact, she became enamored and envious about my journeys abroad (especially since she also viewed normal life in the states as a “rut” too). In essence, I was like a “gateway portal” to the “worlds beyond” America for her. Besides being soulful, she is also very attractive, and we connect mentally on many wavelengths as well.

Due to my will and resourcefulness, in Russia alone I’ve been to 12 cities and a few village settlements, which is much more than what most Russians have been to. As Russia harbored my most memorable experiences and moments, I put together online photo journals (http://www.geocities.com/winstonstorage2/Photojournals.html) containing over a thousand slides, and wrote an extensive hands-on travel guide to Russia to help fellow travelers prepare for their visit there (http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Winstons_Guide_To_Traveling_and_Dating_in_Russia.htm).

During my trips, I began and gradually expanded on, a long point-by-point essay comparing why I liked the culture, environment, and social scene of Russia/Europe more than America, entitled Why I am Happier in Europe/Russia than America (www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Why_I_Am_Happier_In_Europe_Russia.htm) I think it’s one of my best essays, and anyone who has the slightest interest in culture comparison, or who can emphasize and relate to my situation, ought to read it. It also contains two counter-culture sub-essays detailing my viewpoint of American life, Propaganda vs. Real Life in America (http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Propaganda_vs_Real_Life_in_America.htm) and The Industrial Culture of America: Assimilation of an Automaton Populace (http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/The_Industrial_Culture_of_America.htm). To counter charges of generalizing, I’ve written this expose www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Politically_Correct_Fanatics.htm. And to address the folly of the “victim-blaming mentality” of “attitude fanatics” of America, I’ve written: www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Attitude_Fanatics.htm

My international online following begins and grows

During these journeys I started writing journal updates to a group of fans and interested onlookers which grew from a few dozen to nearly a thousand later on, with readers from all over the world. Soon I started receiving regular fan mail from those who read about my adventures and looked through my photo journals on my site. And I was being discussed on internet forums, where I quickly became the center of attention and controversy. Some found my writing too brutally honest and open, making me an easy target for attacks from critics and armchair quarterbacks, while others found them informative and engaging, as though they were watching some sort of “Reality TV”, which made them feel like they were experiencing everything there with me. (You can download and read the files containing these journals, as well as view thousands of photos, in the section of my site entitled My Russian/European Adventures. Or you can read a synopsis of these adventures at www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Synopsis_Russian_Adventures.htm)

You can view a collection of feedback letters and comments from my supporters and fans at www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Supporters_and_Fans.htm. Conversely, I also began to attract a regular group of critics who bashed my every adventure. You can see a compilation of their vicious rants and expositions against me at www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Critics_and_Bashers.htm.

One of my critics became my arch nemesis, “Dave Fuller”, an Australian man also involved in the Russian bride field, who has been quoted in the Sydney Tribune. Fuller’s witty humor, dry sarcasm, mean-spirited tirades, and vicious attacks on me became a regular thing, and was shown to my reader lists by both him and I. Little by little, he started and perpetuated an entire campaign against me, which continues to this day. His relentless ruthless attacks were not only limited to rants, but faked press releases, poems, songs, and comic photos as well, meriting the title of being called my nemesis. I had found my match in flame wars with this rivalry. Since he was the man who regularly attempted to bring me down during “my show”, I began comparing him vs. me to arch villains like “Lex Luthor” vs. “Superman”, “The Riddler” vs. “Batman”, “The Master” vs. “Doctor Who”, etc. Since Fuller liked being cast as “The Riddler”, he adopted it as his pseudonym against me. Though I hate to admit it, I sort of enjoy having an arch enemy for in a way it gives me a morbid feeling of importance, elevating my adventures to the status of a drama show worthy of significance and attention. You can see a section of my site that I dedicated to him at www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Dave_Fuller.htm, containing his wittiest and most mean-spirited anti-Winston works.

I also put up a section on my site dedicated to the villains of my adventures, entitled The Hall of Villains.

Some anonymous folks even put together a music video of me and my adventures, put together from clips of my video footage. It’s a funny, entertaining parody of me and my style. You can view it online here: http://www.mopanda.com/LeDisko.html (Make sure to turn on the sound so that you can hear the song lyrics which are synchronized with my actions/movements in the videos.)

The height of my fame reaches a national level in three countries

It was during my third and longest journey in Russia though, that I achieved the height of my fame. In October 2004, after a gang fight in a small industrial Russian city (Cherepovets) vs. 5 gangsters, I was featured on national Russian news, along with my bruised face. This national feature story was broadcast repeatedly in both Russia and Ukraine. For weeks afterward, people who saw me in public places recognized me and told me so. I estimated that about 40-50 percent of the population of Russia knew who I was after that. I had never been so famous on a mass scale before. It was at this time that I also discovered that Russian people seem to have an amazing and long lasting memory of faces, as even long afterward, people were still recognizing me. Usually, in my country, people forget a new face on the news right after they see it, but these Russians seem to have unswerving and efficient memory of faces (including, in my case, faces of other ethnicities). I was quite surprised. You can see an online news summary of this story in Russian at: http://newsvo.ru/news/2004/10/14/11:03:02.html (The Russian text can be translated using http://translation2.paralink.com by simply copying and pasting text into the online translator, or using the URL mode feature.) And you can see the detailed version that I wrote about it at www.geocities.com/wwu777us/The_Cherepovets_Assault.htm

Later on, my adventures were also featured in Lithuania in a national magazine named Antra Puse (www.antrapuse.lt, May 2005 issue), a publication featuring real life love stories that stand out from the rest. (You can view all four pages of the article about me at these links on my site that I scanned and uploaded them to: Page1, Page2, Page3, Page4) That meant that my stories had received national media coverage in three countries now - Russia, Ukraine, and Lithuania. In addition, earlier when I was in New York before my third journey, a friend of mine who is a professional filmmaker in Manhattan taped an interview we did together for an upcoming documentary film he’s working on entitled Men: Changes.

Transformation, cultural expansion, and a step toward self-mastery

On my last trip in Russia, I also worked for a while in Moscow as both a Journalist for a business gazette, Estates News (www.estatesnews.net), covering stories about multi-million dollar corporate deals in Europe, and as a Teacher for an English School in Moscow. I wrote excellent stories, and soon discovered that I was fit for a career in journalism or mass media. After all, in addition to the professional stories I wrote, taken from interviews and press releases, I also had plenty of practice from writing my regular updates to my online mass lists as well. Therefore, I discovered a new niche that I had talent and potential in besides acting. As of now, I consider Journalism to be my most plausible profession.

Regarding my current position and future plans on Russia, I’ve concluded that Russian women probably aren’t for me. Though among the most beautiful in the world, they are too greedy for my taste, as well as stingy, taking, opportunistic, ungiving, stubborn, conscienceless, manipulative, deceptive, changeable, and hypocritical, all in extreme degrees. (Described in detail here) In addition, several strong conflicts exist between my mentality and theirs (also explained here). Overall, as I and many others have learned, in the big picture the risks of being involved with women in Russia simply outweigh the benefits, and the bad experiences outweigh the good ones. Therefore, I do not have plans to return there, though I can’t rule it out either since I still have one more girlfriend there, along with a few other good prospects I left behind. But according to advice from friends, my better prospects lie in Eastern Russian provinces, Uzbekistan, Kazakstan, Krygyzstan, etc. which are far more open and accepting of my race, and have women who are far less greedy and more giving than Russian women are. Other great choices I heard include Philippines, Thailand, South America, and countries in Eastern Europe.

I can also say that whatever the results from my long odysseys in Russia, i.e. the stimulating experiences, love conquests, fun, etc., it was definitely a great character and endurance building experience that matured me a lot and made me into a tougher person. From all that I endured, I developed a deeper level of mental balance, tolerance, and far broader perspective than ever before. Furthermore, my willpower and courage, which conquered and endured so much the last ten months, gave me a sense of inner confidence and control that I never had before, making me a more complete and evolved person; like a more complete "Jedi Knight" so to speak. And of course, the long experiences greatly broadened my intellect, culture and perspective as well.

I've also come to realize that I've derived some meditational benefits from my trips. You see, one of the primary purposes of meditation is to reduce the mind's attachments - such as clinging to pleasure/assets and resisting pain/undesirable conditions. But my restless nature and ADD symptoms prevent me from practicing regular meditation. However, I've achieved similar results. With all the constant traveling I did, I constantly detached from the people and environment around me, to the point where it became a habit, like second nature. With all that practice in detachment, I am almost able to detach my mind and emotions at will, a benefit similar to that achieved in meditation. But of course, the other aspect of meditation of attaining a still mind, eludes me, as I am basically still a restless and wandering spirit, thriving on novelty and new people/experiences, rather than stable routines.

Last but not least, I gained valuable career experience in professional Journalism which I wouldn’t have been able to get in the US (other than as an intern). Therefore, I can honestly say that despite all I've been through, I'm proud of myself.

In addition, I believe that I‘ve also discovered the secret to happiness. I've become aware that external things or people do not directly cause "happiness", they merely trigger the biochemicals inside us that make us feel that way. What I've discovered is that we can learn to trigger these biochemicals that make us happy at will, through training, practice, and awareness meditation. One merely has to realign the biochemical reactions inside us, reprogramming them to respond differently and breaking old cycles and addictions. It would take some time of course, but it's possible. And I've already had a lot of practice, as I've managed to keep myself happy in that way through thick and thin, even through disappointment and disaster. Thus, it’s led me one step closer to self-mastery. And as the ancient undefeated Chinese general Sun Tzu said, "The one who conquers a thousand nations is not as great as the one who conquers himself."

Due to dissatisfaction with life in America, and my perspective of comparing its culture and social environment with other countries I’ve been immersed in, I’ve written a series of detailed counter-culture essays that outline my observations and comparisons: Propaganda vs. Real Life in America (http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Propaganda_vs_Real_Life_in_America.htm) and The Industrial Culture of America: Assimilation of an Automaton Populace (http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us/The_Industrial_Culture_of_America.htm), the longest being Why I am Happier in Europe/Russia than America (www.geocities.com/wwu777us/Why_I_Am_Happier_In_Europe_Russia.htm). Although I believe in the American ideals of freedom and democracy, I am opposed to its materialistic and conformist lifestyle and culture which constantly equates outward materialistic wants with happiness, depriving people of a rich inner life, inward happiness, and a foundation of inner strength and confidence. I believe that this lack of inner self common amongst many Americans is a major cause in the following problems: 1) The high rate of mental illness, insanity, obesity, and dysfunctional behavior in America, 2) overly fragile egos and low self-esteem which is easily offended, and 3) the propensity to become bored and lonely so easily, requiring constant consumption stimulation and distractions to avoid facing inner emptiness. These issues are expounded upon in my counter-culture essays above.

My current crossroads

At this point, I am at a crossroads. My choices are to either 1) return to Europe to travel and work, since my expressive nature fell in love and felt at one with its culture and social environment, 2) follow my dream years ago of going to Hollywood to pursue an acting career, 3) move to the Southwest part of America where the beautiful desert terrain and canyons have a very invigorating spiritual and social energy, or 4) begin pursuing some type of Journalism or mass media career, the niche I discovered in myself while in Russia.

My main site containing an index of all the links I posted above can be accessed at http://www.geocities.com/wwu777us. You can contact me with comments or questions by email at WWu777@aol.com.

Thanks for your time, attention, and interest.

Sincerely,

Winston Wu

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